Falling in love is such a wonderful feeling that everyone deserves to experience at some point in their lives. Everybody needs someone to appreciate and love them for who they are. Unfortunately, most people want you to fit a certain mold for them to consider loving you and these are people you need to keep away from. They will keep haunting you and will drive you to hate yourself.
When you find someone who loves you unconditionally with your flaws and values you as a person, do all it takes to keep them for they are rare. Love has a tremendous power to give life to a person.
So where does it all start folks?
Do you believe in love at first sight? Well, the cliché is true. Think about it, if you didn't find the person attractive to you, would you have pursued them for a relationship? Love is a funny and weird thing because there is a myriad of things that attract people to each other when they meet and fall in love. Such mundane things like how they smile, how they fidget with their fingers, how they speak, how they look at you, and many more.
Each love relationship follows its path and cannot be confined to one standard way of experiencing it, because human beings are diverse in terms of preferences and personalities that widely vary.
In most cases, the first encounters are filled with excitement, stolen glances, and eventually the exchange of contact when it is agreed there is a mutual spark at play. This sets the couple up for their next encounter whenever that will be.
The first official date.
For most relationships, the first mutual attraction encounter is followed by a date. The timing and the activities planned for the date vary from couple to couple. Depending on how the two people hit it off, the first date is something to look forward to with excitement and anticipation. The person leading or chasing the other in the relationship will follow up and make contact with the other person asking them out for a date. At this point, both parties want to establish if this is the right person and would typically spend most of their time discovering more about each other.
Falling in Love.
Once a couple has gone out on their first date that sets the pace for their next and subsequent outings, hangouts, chats, and dates. As the couple spends more time together they get to establish for themselves if this is the relationship that they would like to pursue.
It becomes obvious that the relationship is heading towards a serious direction when the two people involved can’t seem to get enough of each other and that they are enjoying each other’s company a lot. This could be both physically and emotionally as they get intimate and open to each other.
This is when the couple gets lost in their world and other people and things that used to matter to them don’t interest them the same anymore.
Love gives one a feeling of bliss and temporary insanity and the feeling is so wonderful no wonder people in love act like zombies sometimes. Whichever way one chooses to exhibit their love, the feelings are real and valid.
Where do we go from here?
Once two people are in love, the next step is really up to them. Some people choose to formalize their relationship by getting married and starting a family, while others choose not to. Whichever one couple chooses the ultimate desire is to spend the rest of their lives with this love of their life.
When falling in love and the dating relationship stage, life is blissful with little fights and arguments. The moment the couple decides they are getting into the relationship for the long haul, they will need to brace themselves for the bumps that life throws at couples. Communication and openness in any relationship will see the relationship survive any storm that life would throw at them.
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